speaking & teaching
A member in good standing of the Central Conference of American Rabbis (CCAR), Rabbi Nikki spent the formative years of her rabbinate at the NYU Bronfman Center for Jewish Student Life, where she mentored, taught, & led Reform Shabbat & holiday services in a pluralistic setting. She served for two years as a member of the CCAR’s Resolutions Committee; she is a former member of its Board of Trustees, & past Vice President for Varied Rabbinates. As a freelance rabbi, she can speak & teach on issues of inclusion & belonging, emerging adulthood, feminism, sexuality, polyamory, gender identity & expression, conversion, inclusion, & a host of other topics.
Rabbi Nikki, a white woman wearing a colorful dress and silk tallit (Jewish prayer shawl), speaks to signers of a ketubah (marriage contract)
Rabbi Nikki, a white woman in bright clothing, teaches about gender and the story of creation with her co-facilitator at the Buffalo Jewish Federation’s Conference on Belonging
Rabbi Nikki teaching during her child’s bar mitzvah in her own backyard, with a US Navy Chaplains’ Torah Ark in the background.
topics & torah
Nonbinary Inclusion: From the Ancient Androgynos to Our Community
Preparing for Our Existence: Proactive LGBTQ+ Inclusion in Jewish Community
No More Hiding under the Bed: Sex and Intimacy in Jewish Text Part 1
Pleasure Is a Mitzvah: Sex and Intimacy in Jewish Text Part 2
Judaism Is So Gay: Sex and Intimacy in Jewish Text Part 3
Nasty Women Study Torah: Bringing Third-Wave Feminism to Ancient Judaism
Nice Jewish Boys: Old Texts to Frame a New Non-Toxic Masculinity
Adam, Eve & Everyone Else: Sex, Gender, and Jewish Tradition
The Six Sexes of the Talmud and the Blessings of Gender Today
Am I Grown?: Growing, Parenting, Adulting & Aging Jewishly
Loving the Stranger: Empathy in Jewish Tradition
Not Just Shiva: Jewish Grief and Mourning for a Modern Age
presentations
Belonging Conference Keynote Speaker (Buffalo Jewish Federation, April 2022).
Open Tents and Open Hearts: Jews and Polyamory Panel (Center for Gay and Lesbian Studies, Pacific School of Religion, 20 February 2022)
Coffee with Clergy Interview on Nonbinary Inclusion (Central Synagogue, June 2021)
Exodus Queer Seder (Hillel @ Home, March 2021)
From Bloodguilt to Belonging: Evolving Jewish Perspectives on Queer Sexuality (Hobart & William Smith Colleges, March 2021)
Be Extra: Inclusion & How You Can Make the World a Better Place (William Paterson University Pride, October 2020)
Facing Inclusion (HIGA Hillel Talks, December 2018)
Exodus: NYU’s Annual Queer Seder (2014-2021)
Pastoral Care: When Personal Views Clash with Students' Views (NYU certificate, Leading Spiritual Diversity in Higher Education, July 2018)
Bad Sex (Consent on Campus) (Hillel International Senior Jewish Educator Monthly Webinar, February 2018)
Annual Forum on Religion (NYC Middle School 890 Forum on Religion, February 2018 & 2019)
Beyond the Binary: What Millennials Know about Gender (Women’s Rabbinic Network Webinar, November 2017)
Mean Girls: Women’s Friendships in Torah (Chutzpanit women’s empowerment, June 2017)
Let’s Talk about Sex (in a liberal Jewish way) (Adult Ed panel, Central Synagogue, December 2014)
Pride Shabbat (Guest Speaker, Teacher, Rabbi-In-Residence)